After a long silence, I am back. The past three months have been the most wonderful ones of my life: the birth of my daughter Navya. She is a few days past three months and my wife and I are back on to a schedule.
Provoked, the title, is not about my life.
The Regina vs. Alhuwalia case of 1992 made history when the UK courts redefined the legal use of the term ‘provocation’. In layman’s terms, a delayed violent reaction, resulting from a loss of self-control, caused by frequent subjection to violent treatment over a long period of time can aptly be considered as a provocation. Prior to this landmark case, provocation was considered admissible only under certain ‘reasonable’ circumstances. Legalities aside, the issue at large is that of domestic abuse, particularly that of women, in societies that consider male dominion over the former, as acceptable and hence normal. India, with it’s rich and varied cultural tradition, is a breeding ground for such despicable acts. Of course, this is not to suggest that every other country is exempt from the same. In some form or the other, domestic abuse exist and is tolerated for some reason or the other.
Social acceptance of male dominance as a matter of fact, is not only a thing of the past but also a widespread phenomena among almost all cultures. Looking back in time from an evolutionary perspective, plausible answers are not too hard to find. The physical and mental disposition of males in conjunction with the emotional and reproductive function of females brought about an expectation in roles and responsibilities between sexes within the then social context. However, times have changed and so have roles. What has failed to change is our outlook. Even in this post-modern era, male superiority is held up by some as being the right perspective. Having said this, it is not easy to dismiss the influence of other factors such as religion which even to this day determine and shape the landscape of our society.
Whatever the reasons, abuse in any form should be condemned and not tolerated. As informed citizens, we should try to prevent such acts from happening and report any known incidents to the concerned.
Provoked, the title, is the name of a movie that I watched today; the movie which prompted me to write the above.